Tapping into the Power of Your Source
Posted by Intuition Girl
Question 1
How do I tap into the power of my Source so I can, as you say, dance my way through life? I have been fighting most of my life but I do not want to fight any longer? I guess I am looking for peace in my life? If you can answer this question, I would be most grateful.
Samuel J.
ANSWER:
Hi Samuel:
The greatest statement you said is “I am looking for peace in my life”. The truth is you have peace inside of you; all of us do. All we have to do is remember how to tap into that gift. So often we ignore peace by focusing on the things that are not working or what we do not have. Many times as a default we tap into our confusion, or our fear or panic and we forget what is really inside of us.
In order to tap into your Source you must be able to see the light within you. I often call it the sunlight. Get clear on what it is you are fighting for; in order to know peace you must surrender to where you are, and stop the fight or battle within.
The Source inside of you is a well of Eternal Love and Peace waiting for you to drink from its plenty. What all of you need to do is sit in the sunlight with your heart open to receive the peace you are longing for. If you do this exercise often, you will feel the difference.
Many Blessings,
Joan Marie, the Gift – Intuition Girl
Honoring your Feelings through Trust
Posted by Intuition Girl
Question 2
I love my partner but I do not trust him. I feel as though he is not being honest with me. 
I do not think he is deliberately trying to do that…but nonetheless, that is the end result and that is what I am feeling. I hope I am making sense here. If you have any guidance, I would greatly appreciate it.
Thank you.
Sierra J.
Answer 2
Dear Sierra:
I believe I understand what you are saying. I often say that it is important to trust what you are feeling. Our feelings are like a radar system that if you understand them correctly they can steer you in the right direction. The key for you is to heal what emotions are coming up for you. The only person you can control is yourself, so the point to make is how do you want to deal with this and other situations. If you are feeling betrayed, what outcome do you choose so you will feel honored and respected.
I also suggest that you sit down with your partner and have an open and honest communication with him. You need to get really clear with yourself and what it is you do not trust in your relationship and talk with him about it. Is he covering up something so as not to worry you? What are the reasons? This is also a great time for you to look deeper at this relationship and your mutual commitment with each other so that you understand what is working and what is not. You both need to decide to come together and work through this situation before something happens
I also strongly suggest that during this time you take care of you—your emotions, mental attitude and physical wellbeing. Work on gaining clarity of what is coming up for you and why you are in this situation. This is a great lesson for you in becoming more honest with yourself and your life. As you make a deeper commitment to you, you will also be honoring your feelings.
Many Blessings,
Joan Marie, the Gift – Intuition Girl
Moving forward in life with purpose and meaning
Posted by Intuition Girl
Question 1
How do I honor who I am and follow my life’s purpose? I am a 60 year old woman who has a job but I have no security so how do I move forward with my life, its purpose and meaning?
I guess I am hoping to discover my soul’s purpose and my future while I am on this planet. I am not sure how to begin. If you can give me some insight I would be most grateful.
Heather W.
Answer 1
Dear Heather:
It is about your soul discovery. I think you are too focused on your Ego Mind, which is well intentioned however, out of ignorance it is focusing on fear and worry which is actually tripping you up and preventing you from bringing flow into your life. To unblock it means that you have to do your work, which does take conscious intention, willingness and commitment. We all have the opportunity to choose feeling blocked or feeling the flow. Which are you choosing? Please take a look at yourself and see what frequency you are marching too—your self-observation will be most helpful.
You have powerful thoughts and you are the solution, so I suggest that you move away from fear or insecurity. You can flow but it is about the frequency that you are identifying with. So again I emphasize, you must begin to decide how you want to live and where you want to put your focus. What you dwell on all the time will materialize your outcome.
One of your life lessons is for you to learn and understand why you have needed to be in the place you are in. This is not a punishment. It is a wake-up call. Also, allow yourself now more than ever to create clarity on what you want your life to look like. What is it you want to bring into your life? I have said it before and I will say it again, I wrote my book: “Soul Discovery to help people like you. If you sincerely want to discover the answers that you are seeking, you will reach out for the tools that will guide your journey.
Many Blessings,
Joan Marie the gift intuition girl
Overcoming paralyzing fear
Posted by Intuition Girl
Question 2
Dear Joan Marie:
Every time I want to move forward in life I get severe anxiety attacks and I become paralyzed with fear. Will I ever be able to heal this?
Thank you,
Samantha Tucker
Answer 2
Dear Samantha:
This is a powerful question and one I deal with often with my clients. What seems to be happening is conflict between your Higher Self (your soul) and your Ego. It is really important not to force anything. Your child within is scared and you need to get to the bottom of it with her and find out why through your self-observation. Your Ego Mind actually believes that it is protecting you by bringing up your fear but in truth it is preventing your forward movement as you focus on your limiting beliefs.
I always recommend to my clients to ask their emotions to speak to them. Sit with your anxiety and fear- they have a voice- go beneath the words of what is there and allow the emotions to lift so you can let them go. 
By observing our Ego thinking, we can become aware of those beliefs and feelings that are holding us back. It is important to learn how to create a continuous flow of love energy. Any of my meditation CD’s will assist you with this. The Forgiveness and Healing Program will help tremendously as you change your feelings and dwell on that which brings you joy.
Our Ego is actually a gift to us when utilized in the right way. It reveals to us all those emotions that we need to let go of so we can grow and heal.
Joan Marie the Gift, Intuition Girl
How can I move on?
Posted by Intuition Girl
Dear Joan,
Life is really taking a toll on me. I have wanted to contact you for solong. I wish I could afford to talk with you more.
Job wise, where am I headed?
Finance, how do I get out of this?
Marriage, will it last?
How can I move on? My mind is spinning?
Help!
Sammy Jo
Answer
Dear Sammy Jo:
First and foremost you must control your mind. It is taking over your life and setting you up for failure and destruction. The best thing for me to do with you and everyone reading this answer is to put the ball back in your court and ask you to step up for yourself and take responsibility for your own answers. What do you need to do to completely turn your life around? If you could identify the biggest block that is stopping your forward motion in your life right now, your whole life, in an instant, could dramatically change for the better.
I want you to see where all the lack is in your life, not just with money but all aspects in your life. Possibly it could be with communication, your health and /or your attitude—take the time to sit quietly and write about all your feelings of lack. Then I want you to write out all your blessings – is anything going your way?
What is a gift in your life? Where can you be a gift to yourself? You are steering your ship towards the rocks. The key for you right now is to turn the direction of your ship 
but that will take a strong intention, willingness and commitment. You need to decide where you belong, where can you benefit and be of service and what can be a benefit to you. Yes it takes work, of course, it can be exhausting—but we are speaking about you and your life and maybe it is time for you to be responsible for your choices.
When we focus on blessings and gifts even if it is one thing- and you focus on it often this alone can begin to open your heart and prepare you to receive another blessing such as a job. Honest and sincere self-discovery is beneficial. A pity party is not. Start having open and honest communication with yourself and your partner. Get real clear with what is working in your life. Understand what is not working and decide to change it.
Self-observation is powerful. Let go of what does not serve you, get resourceful and breath life back into your body, mind and spirit. Before you can enjoy and experience positive change in your external life, you need to work on the positive and nurturing change on the inside of you. Learn to receive and appreciate the blessings that are waiting for you. Believe that you deserve to receive
Many Blessings,
Joan Marie Whelan
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About the Author: Joan Marie Whelan, an internationally known intuitive specialist, business consultant, medium, and coach travels throughout the United States sharing her gifts and the Manifestation Method with solo-preneurs, professionals, small business owners, and large companies , please go to:www.joanmariewhelan.com
