5 Must-Have Attitudes in Relationships
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In life, you will occasionally find that no matter where you are, with whom you are, or in whatever circumstance you may be, you may feel empty and dissatisfied with your current state of affairs. Perhaps you feel your job is no longer 
challenging or rewarding; or if you are in a long-standing relationship, you suddenly realize you have grown tired and bored with whom you have invested years of your life. Some of the most common mistakes some of you make is believing that others are there to “serve your purpose“. In relationships, it falls to each one of us to continually choose nonjudgmental perceptions and constructive interactions. Each and every day, you must focus on stronger and more sustainable relationships by carefully constructing building blocks of love and respect. Here are five must-have attitudes in relationships, which promise a sustainable and promising lifestyle:
1. Thinking of “50 Ways to Leave your Lover“? Maybe Paul Simon made a hit with that song, but perhaps it is time to start thinking of at least 25 ways to improve your relationship. Seriously. Get out a sheet of notebook paper and write down 50 ways to improve your relationship. Think of small ways you can contribute to bettering your circumstances and enriching each others’ lives. Remember, in love, it is a two-way street. It is not about how much your loved one can “serve your purpose“; rather, it is about how much each one of you can serve your own purposes to strengthen your bonds of love.
2. Seek and employ. Whether you are in a personal or professional relationship, you must have a “can-do” attitude. If your primary mission is to “search and destroy” aspects of a relationship – meaning you are more into “fault-finding” opposed to “positivism-finding”, then you are sabotaging your own relationship with something or someone. Instead, make a point to find five (5) positive elements or characteristics you admire about your career or your significant other. When you recalibrate your thinking in a more upbeat and hopeful thought process, you find that day-to-day living becomes more tolerable and joy-filled.
3. Stop assuming. It is vital in all relationships to toss out any preconceived ideas about a person or a situation. It is easy to fall into the “assumption trap” because you may have had a previous bad experience. Let it go. Do not offer feedback until you are absolutely clear of what an individual is telling you or doing. Just because something does not always seem clear to you, it does not mean the intention toward you is negative. Get the facts straight before you assume someone is out to get you. I have discovered that when I take the time to see the situation or experience from their point of view, I am better prepared to responds with wisdom and insight.
4. Compromise. Yes, in any and all relationships, it is imperative that you are willing to compromise. Throughout history, leaders – both great and small – have had to be the grownup in the room to find the middle ground. Compromising does not mean you have to sell your soul. What it does mean is that you are willing to cooperate on straightforward solutions to both complex and even simple issues. It may even mean “agreeing to disagree” and leaving it at that but I suggest without anger or malice.
5. Stop beating a dead horse. Have you ever been on the receiving end of one of these lashings? I am sure if you have, it has certainly made you feel frustrated or uncomfortable. So do not do it to someone else. If you have forgiven someone for past words or deeds, then you must also forgive yourself so you can release any anger or hurt feelings over that specific situation. If you have moved beyond a certain point in your life, why would you continue to rehash it? When you free yourself from past hurts, you find those associated feelings no longer have a stranglehold over your life. If you feel you cannot do it alone, let go and let God take the burden off your shoulders. Together, you will stop beating a dead horse and find the courage to move forward as an empowered being.
Inspirational Message – Operating from a place of wholeness
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From this day forth breathe in, you are already complete and you are enough.
Inspirational Message – Are you married to your problems?
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Are you drowning in the drama in your life? Are you clinging onto the past?
Allow yourself to move forward and be free, start fresh in your life.
Shhh… your Intuition is Talking to You
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Have you ever been in a crowded or loud place and you just want to tune it all out? Or maybe the sheer stress in life has just overwhelmed you so much that you feel like your head is going to explode? Now is not the time to collapse into fear and anxiety mode — now is the time to turn down the volume… reduce the noise pollution in your mind so that you can begin to think clearly and more fluidly.
Many times we receive helpful hints, little voices, or thoughts and creative ideas from the Universe but we are so caught up in our own little worlds that we do not hear or see the messages that are so desperately trying to reach us.
We are each born with the gift of intuitive abilities that when fine-tuned, will enable us to receive the abundance that the Universe wants us to manifest – the abundance of wealth, health, happiness, success, relationships, careers, and whatever it is our hearts desire.
When you take the time to quiet your ego mind and begin to fine-tune your awareness, you alert your soul to the Universal clues that are being presented to you. You do that through simple meditation or just by sitting and listening to the sounds of silence. It is often through the whisper of peace and the calming and soothing effects of stillness that you are able to find the answer that you seek within.
Remember, there are no knee-jerk reactions in meditation, only soft, gentle vibrations that guide you in the direction that you need to go. The Universe knows the resolution and the path that you must take to achieve the life that you are destined to live. When you let it all go and begin listening to what it is trying to tell you, you may just find yourself in the place that you need to be in the time that you need to be there.
Joan Marie, your Intuition Girl
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Shhh… your Intuition is Talking to You
By Joan Marie the Gift, Intuition Girl
Inspirational Message – Are you honest with yourself
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Is there something inside of you that is blocking your space?
Most of us don’t know that the true power and only power is inside of us 100%.
