Stop Reading between the Lines!
Posted by Intuition Girl
It’s the writing on the wall that we often do not wish to see – especially when it comes to relationships. When you have held onto a relationship with certain people, behaviors, material things or emotions for a long time, you become comfortable and complacent – even if the relationship is no longer warranted, harmful or desirable. You must admit that when you continue to stay in these situations that you are reading between the lines, seeing a mirage of a vague hope for a miracle or a change – but not the actual “writing on the wall”. It’s the in-between lines that keep you hostage. Are you sitting perched upon your wall oblivious to what is actually happening in your life? Why? Is it because you feel that you do not deserve better or that you cannot do any better than where you are?
To move forward in life, you must remove the blinders from your eyes. Look at what is right before you. You must stop placing the person or situation in your life on a pedestal. Remember, you must first love yourself in order to share that love with others. It is not selfish to step back from a relationship to get a bird’s eye view of the actuality of it. When you begin understanding what the writing is literally speaking to you, you can say, “no more.”
There is an old adage that says, “If you love something, let it go. If it comes back to you, it’s yours forever. If it doesn’t, then it was never meant to be.” That is the way you must shape your mind and your heart. I know it’s difficult sometimes separating the two. They sort of melt together and 
get mixed up along the way. You do not have to “fall out” of love in a relationship, but you must learn to “fall in” love with yourself so that you can recognize what is healthy and helpful in your life and what is unhealthy and harmful to you.
You are a remarkable individual, perfect and beautiful in every single way. This is how the Higher Power created you. This is not a revelation; this knowledge has been with you all along. Read the writing on the wall. Listen to what your gut feeling is telling you. Look at the relationship from all sides. Ask yourself, “Is this relationship helping me or is it hurting me?” Once you stop seeing your own misconceptions and start seeing the reality and the truth of the matter, you will be free from your self-imposed captivity.
Until we speak again, I am
Joan Marie – your Intuition Girl
© Stop Reading between the Lines! – 2012
By Joan Marie the Gift, Intuition Girl
Money is like a lover
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July 31st 2012
Something to smile about
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July 25th 2012
Reaching your Inner Core
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When is the last time you have felt that special part in you – your vital source? Your vital source, soul being, chi or life force keeps your heart 
beating, your life flowing and your mind ticking. It is that vast part of your true being that charges every magical moment in your life. If you have allowed your vital source to fall to the wayside because you have stretched yourself to thin – be it at work, at home or in relationships, you begin to lose touch and all sense of what your true being is and what it can be.
To reconnect with your inner core, you must relinquish all your fears and any emotional baggage or relationships that are breaking down your defenses. When your natural defense mechanisms are worn down from strife and past traumas, you tend to stay disillusioned and satisfied with yourself – even if your life is hardly bearable.
I want you to stop for a few minutes and genuinely think about who you are, where you have been, where you want to be, and where you are really going in your life. Now ask yourself the following questions – and I want you to be brutally honest with yourself:
- Am I truly happy at this time in my life?
- Am I healthy and at peace?
- Is this who I really am?
- Is this who I wanted to be?
- Did I set reachable goals?
- Have I achieved the goals that I’ve set?
- Is this the path on which I really want to be?
- Is this the right track for me to take?
- Will I be where I want to be in six months, one year, five years, etc.?
- In the end, will it be worth it?
Now that you have candidly answered all of these questions, can you move forward in your life beyond a shadow of a doubt without any regret? If you cannot, then it is time to reach deep inside and 
feel that sense of worth, motivation and inspiration that only your inner core can provide you. To do this, you must simply ask your higher source for the will and strength to feel what it is to be truly alive. Daily meditation, deep breathing exercises and affirmations often help rebuild and strengthen your inner core’s foundation. Once you have reconnected with your soul being, you will be living with the inner power and stamina to be happy, healthy and to achieve greatness in every area of your life.
Until we speak again, I am
Joan Marie – your Intuition Girl
© Reaching your Inner Core – 2012
By Joan Marie the Gift, Intuition Girl
Being part of a team has great merit
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July 18th 2012
