Finding love online…
Posted by Intuition Girl
Hey Joan Marie,
My name is Carla, and I was wondering if you’d be able answer a few questions. I’ve been talking to this guy on the computer off and on for about 5 years and recently we began to talk again and now it seems more serious then ever. What I want to know is if he will show up to meet me in May? He claims to have feelings towards me and wants to be with me but I have to make sure he is telling the truth or if he is just leading me on
Thank you, Carla Cisneros
Dear Carla:
My question to you is do you want to be in a healthy relationship with a partner who is ready for a commitment? If this is the case then you need to be honest with yourself and him and ask him what it is he wants from you. Be honest with yourself as to the type of communication you both have had together in the past 5 years. Did you share openly your wishes in life?
Did you both take the time to get to know each other or did you just fill a void for each other at that moment? Some people who communicate on the internet have commitment issues and intimacy issues. Now I said some people! Let’s be real, if you both want to get to know each other you need to meet in person, and get to know each other face to face—only then can you know if there is something more between you. The question you asked me about him, I would like to turn it around and ask you—and please be honest. Think about it…. every person who comes into our life is a mirror of what is going on inside of us.
Take the time to think about what it is that is really going on within you. The truth is, you both will need to open up to each other in an honest way and allow the process to mature and grow with time.
Your heart will know the truth if you want to know it.
Many Blessings,
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