Inspirational Message – Why should somebody love me?
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Do you ever get over losing someone?
Posted by Intuition Girl
Dear Joan Marie:
I know you are also a “Medium” and have talked to many people to help them overcome the loss of a loved one. My question is: “ Do you ever get over losing someone? ”
Thank you,
Michelle P.
Ohio
Answer
Dear Michelle:
I don’t believe anyone ever has to get over the loss of a loved one. You do, however, need to learn how to accept it, heal from it and continue living. When you lose someone that you care deeply about there is a process or stages that you go through. Some people become very angry, others feel isolated and depressed and others carry on with their lives on the outside but on the inside they are crumbling. Usually the final stage is acceptance. It is true that everyone heals and recovers at a different pace.
Death is never meant as a punishment or that God is getting even. We are all born with a contract that we agreed to before we arrived on earth. While we do, I believe, have the opportunity to change our contract, destiny plays a large part in the equation. Death is, in actuality, liberation from the bonds of the human form. Even after death, the spirit lives on and continues to grow and heal. I realize that it is difficult for many to accept this truth, but if we could, we would be better prepared to look at the departure of a soul as their liberation and freedom and therefore a celebration.
It is perfectly natural to recall and wish for a loved one to still be with us and you may choose to keep their memory alive. But it would be helpful to store in your heart your love ones fond memory with the understanding that their departure was necessary in order for you to find your own voice and live your life now for your highest and best good. We all have lessons to learn from life and death and this is simply a part of the experience.
We may never forget but it would be wise to accept the reality. This truth is key to helping you build strength and support as you step forward towards a new phase of your life.
Many Blessings,
Joan Marie Whelan
About the Author: Joan Marie Whelan, an internationally known intuitive specialist, business consultant, medium, and coach travels throughout the United States sharing her gifts and the Manifestation Method with solo-preneurs, professionals, small business owners, and large companies
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