A matter of integrity
Posted by Intuition Girl
QUESTION # 4
How do I deal when someone questions/doubts my integrity?
I am in the process of suing someone and did everything, I was supposed to; however, when I asked regarding the payment, I was told to wait, until my papers were received in the court.
Thanks, Maria
ANSWER:
Dear Maria:
Integrity is a very noble characteristic trait that we all should desire to possess. Sometimes in life it is not a question of believing in you and your side of the story as it is in believing that their side of the story has greater value and merit to them. I do not know your entire situation to comment properly; however, I can say, that life does often require a bit of give and take. If you are suing someone because you believe you are right, it is possible that your motive may be honest and noble but in reality it might be better to walk away or be willing to pay an attorney, court expenses and other types of fees just to prove your point.
The Universe knows your heart and will ultimately help you find solace and peace. Being right doesn’t always get you the result that you are seeking. Being wise does, it helps you accept the solution that will allow you to forgive and live with inner peace.
Blessing to you on your journey,
Joan Marie the gift, Intuition Master
Learn more about Psychic Medium Joan Marie Whelan – Intuition Counselor and Intuition Coaching Specialist
Who is my guardian angel?
Posted by Intuition Girl
QUESTION # 3
Joan Marie…I just love you and would really enjoy meeting you…maybe one of these days I will?! Anyway – my question to you is years ago I was told that my guardian angel is a relative of mine, now of course when I heard that I asked: “well who is it?” I was then told I’m the only one who would know that and sorry to say I don’t know who it is. I’m very curious and would appreciate your help with this if you can!?
Thanks a million and God bless you and your family
Donna L. Berry
ANSWER
Dear Donna:
Each one of us has a Guardian Angel who looks after us, possibly is even our personal assistant who is from the other realm. We can have more than one angel who watches over us and who helps us out in various ways. We can also have a deceased relative who has chosen to be an angel to us and guide our journey while we are earth bound. I believe you can ask, especially when you go to sleep at night for your guardian angel or your family angel to speak to you and reveal itself to you. You will begin to sense their presence and their guidance.
Different religions have brought up angels and you can trace their existence through antiquity. I cannot tell you exactly who is guiding you and assisting you in your life, but it is true, that you will have to be diligent in your pursuit of this information. Angels are messengers from God. They are with us to help us on our journey but we MUST ask them for their help and we MUST let them know what we are seeking because we have free will. They will not interfere with our lives unless we ask. Having said that, I will restate again, ask your angel or family member if they are with you and ask if they will let you know about their involvement in your life.
Be persistent and specific in what you are seeking and you will receive your answer in a sign, a thought, a feeling, a heartfelt knowing. It will come to you.
Blessing to you on your journey,
Joan Marie the gift, Intuition Master
Learn more about Psychic Medium Joan Marie Whelan – Intuition Counselor and Intuition Coaching Specialist
Certified Master Intuitive Joan Marie Whelan answers reader questions with straight talk from the heart!
Needing relationship advice
Posted by Intuition Girl
QUESTION # 1
Joan Marie,
I can honestly answer the question that if I had money I would not stay in my marriage. Neither my husband nor I are happy but I think we stay because we have children (and me because it’s more financially secure). We had an argument yesterday and he mentioned that we both messed up by getting married to each other because I’m not the one for him and he’s not the one for me. I feel the same way. I can even look back and see that there were flashing stop signs all over the place in the beginning and throughout our relationship before we even got married. The classic case of “I wish I knew then what I know now”.
I was confiding in an older lady friend (someone like a mother figure) who put it pretty bluntly that I might as well just stay because no one else out there is going to want me because I have three children. She says that’s too much baggage and it’s easier to have two incomes than just one. I’m scared to stay and let my life pass me by and I’m scared to leave and face the unknown and struggle with financial issues. I feel trapped.
Any advice?
Thank you.
Elizabeth
ANSWER:
Dear Elizabeth:
I thought your question was brilliant! My mom is going to answer this one because she, too, experienced a marriage that didn’t work. I, therefore, believe that she is the right person to address your concerns.
Dear Elizabeth – When I read your question, I completely understood the tug in your heart and the unhappiness that you are experiencing. Both you and your husband have agreed that your marriage is not working. As I see it, you have two choices:
One to take measures to work it out, such as counseling, which also requires a change in both of your attitudes and behavior as well as in changing the environment in your home or separation; whether that results in divorce or not. If both of you are in agreement that this union should have never taken place and both of you want to see a change, then both of you will need to sit down – communicate in a civil tone and mannerism and work on your alternatives.
My dear friend, a choice based on fear cannot be one of your decisions. If you are only willing to stay in this relationship because of a strong sense of security, then you will never be happy or feel content.
I divorced my first husband with four young children ages 2-7 and at the time, I hadn’t worked during those seven years. I started a new career with an investment from a friend of $500.00, which I paid back, and the rest is history.
It would be foolish and false for me to say that this is going to be easy because it is not. I made a decision, and from that day forward I knew that I must take responsibility for the outcome for my four children and myself. My husband did not support us financially even though he did move out of the house. I picked myself up by the bootstraps, so to speak, and for the next eight years I worked very long hours both on the job and as a Mom. We became a family of five and all of my free time was spent nurturing and supporting my children. It was only after eight years when I was stable and secure in my own right that I was able to meet and spend time with others. I did re-marry and my four children benefited from that union.
You have a lot of thinking to do. This is not an easy decision. There are many factors that need to be examined by you and I encourage you to be realistic. It is my personal opinion that a mother‘s primary responsibility is to her children, then to her spouse. I took that responsibility very seriously and I never wavered from it. Yes, it was hard. Yes it was exhausting and no, I had no family support. Whatever choices you and your husband make, please remember that you still can be a family with your three children and they can still feel safe and secure even if you do not always experience those same thoughts.
Seek guidance from God and the angels. They will most definitely help you on your journey if you ask them. Ask for courage, strength and guidance. Nothing is impossible if you truly believe.
Many blessings to you,
Joan Marie Ambrose, the MOM
Learn more about Psychic Medium Joan Marie Whelan – Intuition Counselor and Intuition Coaching Specialist
If you have an opinion and have something to say, what comes next?
Posted by Intuition Girl
Dear Friends,
We all have opinions…we all have thoughts and feelings about what is affecting our lives but what are you doing to make your thoughts heard? As we look around the world, we are able to observe that the people, the general public have some strong opinions and want to be heard, listened to and valued so that the changes that are taking place will reflect their needs, wants and desires.
- We can and we need to express our opinions but only if they are sincerely based on what we believe not what someone else dictates as so, because we are free thinking beings.
- We can and we must express ourselves in a thoughtful and healthy manner for our highest and best good and for the highest and best good of others.
- We can and we must respect that forcing others to conform is against the laws of the Universe.
- We can and we ought to take a step back and observe what others are saying because just maybe what they are saying has great merit.
PRACTICE your birthright. It is our right to be happy, peaceful, abundant and free to live life as long as it is ecologically sound. That means, as long as our actions do no harm to ourselves, to others and to the earth on which we live.
It is your duty and responsibility to stand up for what you believe in and to ask others to do the same. We were born to be free thinking beings. I, therefore, encourage you to take the time to get the facts from the source and refrain from forming your opinion based on what your peers believe because you want to be part of their group. It takes confidence in one self to form an opinion based on the bigger picture of how the vast majority of people will be affected; yet I encourage you to be confident in your ability to assess and think objectively.
It is time for you to become a leader over your life.
Learn more about Psychic Medium Joan Marie Whelan – Intuition Counselor and Intuition Coaching Specialist
March 16, 2011
Grounding your energy
Posted by Intuition Girl
Warning: trim() expects parameter 1 to be string, array given in /home/intuit/public_html/wp-content/plugins/flash-video-player/flash-video-player.php on line 181
Get the Flash Player to see this content.
An inspirational message is sent to give you a deeper insight into life’s purpose as it also instills some meaning and awareness. Allow this Monday Morning Message sent at the beginning of the week to help set the pace for the next six days in a way that inspires and invites reflection.
To sign up for my weekly Inspirational Messages you can fill out the form on the right hand side of my site.
Learn more about Psychic Medium Joan Marie Whelan – Intuition Counselor and Intuition Coaching Specialist
March 14, 2011
