Focus on You Transcript
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Good Morning! Groundhog Day was certainly a blast! I am thankful for all the wonderful folks who participated in my “Focus on You” LIVE Chat last night!
Some of you may have missed last night’s LIVE Chat on my Facebook Group, “Focus on You”. Below is a transcript of our LIVE feed. Hopefully some of you will be able to find the answers you are seeking here — and if not, be sure to stay tuned for announcements on my next FREE LIVE Chat on “Focus on You”. Once logged onto your Facebook account, you can join the group, “Focus on You” here: http://www.facebook.com/home.php?sk=group_116202975117399&ap=1
February 2, 2011 “Focus on You” Transcript:
Cristina Barcia} Thank you Joan. . .Always your fan!
Joan Marie Whelan} I knew it was you!!!!! Girl- how are you??? We miss you and the gang at your office- I was thinking of you all recently….. I wish you could participate in the 5 month program…. it is amazing and you will go through the roof in a good way. I have so many men in this class- it would be nice to have a few more women. Who would have thought that.
You need to daily own the truth of who you are- this is for all of you- hugs, JM
Cristina Barcia} Miss you too! My best to your mom too . . God, I loved that course and the one after. . haha. . I don’t feel I am in a position to take the 5 month course at the present moment, though. . Feel like I have to own up to the tools you taught us (ME) in the first 2. . .Make sense?
Cristina Barcia} Your word “daily” in your response struck me. . . Got that one.
Donna Lynn} Thanks for the love!
Kristen Cort} Thank you Joan Marie!! : )
Joan Marie Whelan} I had so much fun with you all tonight!!! This was very productive. Let’s do it again. Look for an announcement on my next live chat. I am sending you all so much love.
I also answer questions- in my free newsletter – if you are not signed up please do- love you all, JM
Donna Lynn} What do you see for the future?
Joan Marie Whelan} Donna:- you are not owning what you are praying for! You have to be it at the same time-look at what is blocking you- this will help.
Donna Lynn} Hugs for you!!!
Joan Marie Whelan} Cristina: were you in my Manifestation Method Program!
Cristina Barcia} yes (blush)
Joan Marie Whelan} Carol Ann- it is not about the other’s responding or not- it is what you are doing about it for yourself. When we keep things in and process in silence it actually hurts you and doesn’t help you.
The key is respect and putting your foot down and speaking up and saying this is what serves me and what we as a family need to begin working on and experiencing. Hope this helps. Hugs, JM
CarolAnn BaileyLloyd }Thank you, JM 
Cristina Barcia} Joan Marie – Can you see in what other areas I have to prepare more? Where should I lean towards first? I just see so much that I have to work on (again). . Maybe help me list?
Jill Engelmann} maybe do instead of TRY!!!
Donna Lynn} I keep trying to raise my energy level by prayer/meditation and not worrying so I can have simple abundance…
Jill Engelmann} Love the sun thing!!! I feel tan already… lol
Joan Marie Whelan} Kristen- it is not just about ding- it is about what is going on inside of you. The best way to describe it- is the sun lives inside of you- feel the sun rays beaming in every cell of your body- and ramping up your watts internally. Hugs, JM
Donna Lynn} I love what you told Jill! What do you see for me?
Joan Marie Whelan} Donna: What are you expecting on 2/11- ? The 12th no is more highlighted for you- I am being honest. You need to step up in order to create more.
Money is just energy- in order for more to come in- we have to be at a level in order for it to come in…. you need to raise your vibration- which is your energy frequency.
Kristen Cort} Joan Marie, I have really been working n meditating, journaling, exercising, everything I can to increase my vibrational level. How do you see this benefiting me in this year to come?
Joan Marie Whelan} Jill- how good is my intuition!!! LOL- I knew you were looking for a job. I truly feel it is right around the corner. March is a good month for you. It maybe a referral that gets you the job. You are close so do not give up.
You are powerful and wise- can you consult? Great love is coming for you this year- late summer / fall for sure- but spring is good to get out and enjoy – you will be dating sooner than you think.
Joan Marie Whelan} 2011 is a year of being very prepared. Now more than ever is the time for all of us to step up your game- gain clarity and insight to your own life.
There will be great change this year for many! The key for us is not to get taken out by it but “rise up”. The only way to do this is have a solid foundation.
Cristina Barcia} How would you term 2011? What should we as individuals focus on so that we help ourselves focus correctly.
CarolAnn BaileyLloyd} Good question…
Cristina Barcia} I ask ’cause for me I feel I have been out of focus. .. and regressed to a state I don’t want to be in.
Donna Lynn} Is Feb 11th an important date for me and do you see success in my near future or more money?
Joan Marie Whelan} Jill- you are funny! maybe we are related!!! I do see great things for you but I also feel you need to be a bit more persistent. In the end you will get what you want but there will be a few delays. The key for you is to not get so frustrated and immediately begin working on the solutions.
I feel like you need a job or more money – what is it you are looking for?
Jill Engelmann} funny my initials are JM also.. :0
Jill Engelmann} Hi Joan Marie, Can you see GREAT POSITIVE things happening in the near future, like tomorrow? LOL
Joan Marie Whelan} JILL; What is your question… thanks… JM
Joan Marie Whelan} Dear Kristen: Great questions- what is blocking you- I see some fear in you especially around 3 years old…. we all have fear in life but if we can go back to the root of it- and see what caused it- it is like a domino effect and help heal all areas of your life. I do not want to get too personal with you on FB unless you want me to- but I do see some yelling going on- when you were younger- it was around you- again it can be with family- at school or in an environment not directed at you- but you felt it.
Life lesson for you and many of you on tonight is speaking up form your heart and sharing your truth. I am going to post on my website a free download- of a powerful meditation that will assist you with childhood blocks… I will get it up this week.
CarolAnn BaileyLloyd } Yes, you can post your questions and Joan Marie is answering!
Jill Engelmann} THANKS!!!
Joan Marie Whelan} HI Donna: I just sent you two comments- and they are not showing up- I cannot comment- of course tonight of all nights…. so in a quick nutshell-
You are not meant to struggle. You are very creative and I want you to step outside your comfort zone and take some risks. You need to be clear on the word struggle and how is it serving you. I know you must be screaming it is not- but somehow there is a payoff or you would not need to struggle.
Make peace with where you are! It is a must or you will continue this. You can create much more in life. Let’s also look at where is all the scarcity in your life…. you need to also be open to receiving. You are not fully there or more would come in… feel comfortable being vulnerable and safe…. love you, JM
Jill Engelmann } Hi Joan Marie, can we ask questions to you? I’m not even sure if you can see what I write? LOL
Kristen Cort} Jill, I think you need to post at the top of the page instead of commenting : )
Joan Marie Whelan} HI Donna: The yellow roses are for you- they mean joy- so you must need a bit more joy in your life. The key for you is can you connect back to that piece of you that did not feel safe and connect with her- read my comment t Kristen it will help… hugs, JM
Joan Marie Whelan} Kristen- when I say speak up form your heart. I do believe it is important to be honest. I feel that you can share with people how they treat you or speak to you hurts you.
I do not feel we need to yell and scream back.. We are all human and have your moments. When we keep your emotions in- then and some point we explode. Also how people are speaking to you- either helps you to feel good about you and supports you or takes you out.
CarolAnn BaileyLloyd} I’ve got a question in response to this, Joan Marie… I am one of those, who probably like Kristen, holds back a lot of emotions because that’s how I personally deal with situations. I kind of have to work through them in silence…one of my biggest fears is the potential that a lack of responsiveness may occur when speaking form the ♥ ?
Joan Marie Whelan} Kristen- you do not believe in you- and that is why you are in a holding pattern you are feeding into self doubt and again a big theme with you is you are scared deep within. How to heal your fear is to go back to when you were most frightened- see yourself at that time and then have you now – as an adult g talk t the frightened child and talk with her- ask her what she needs form you- let her know you are in charge now and begin building a relationship with her….. hope this helps… hugs, JM
Donna Lynn} I always felt unprotected as a child growing up w/ my father in a rough neighborhood…and going on further than a BA is frustrating to me…oh thanks Joan Marie-I just saw the post…I love dark pink roses-my living room has blue couches and carpet…I don’t remember the yellow for mom but I’m glad she is smiling…She saw an angel before she died…: )
CarolAnn BaileyLloyd} I know that Sasha Sabbeth was really excited about tonight’s event…wonder if she is going to be here.
Joan Marie Whelan} Donna: I will say your mom is smiling in heaven! she loves yellow roses- and or you do too! she is showing me lots of flowers- a lit candle and a gold chain- do you have green in your home- I am seeing green and blue- it could be a rug- a chair- I feel like it is in the TV room-
Donna Lynn} I miss her…She worked hard and had a tough life…
Joan Marie Whelan} Donna:– you are so funny- Your mom definitely did her best- and she did the best she could……
Joan Marie Whelan} Kristen- question 2- tools to help you all- the bottom line for everyone is to make peace with what is blocking you- this alone helps to diminish it.
This may sound crazy but everything is energy – so your blocks also have a vice- where did this vice come from…. somewhere you are repeating history and this needs to stop.
To build confidence- you need to build your wheel of self esteem- every night before you go to bed- list a few things on why is it good to be you!
Donna Lynn} Are you sure you are picking up these vibes form Kristen? I came from a home with a lot of yelling going on but there was lots of love as well! My mom did her best!
Joan Marie Whelan} Cristina: Great questions…. Forgiveness is about you- not them. Your family members are not going to change nor are they supposed to. You need to look at yourself and say why am I participating in this and how do I want to show up in these situations….. The truth is- you need to come at this as a Leader and you can also let them know form your heart what you are looking for from them.
What were your lessons? You not trusting is about you- not them. You need t trust yourself and put yourself in good situations also speak up. Once you trust you- life will change… hope this helps… Hugs, JM
Donna Lynn} I posted questions earlier-do you want me to repeat them…It’s hard to find peace when there is so much turmoil (monetary and family)
Kristen Cort} Joan Marie, I feel like I have been stuck in a holding pattern. In my career, and in relationships. I am having trouble moving forward in these areas.
Joan Marie Whelan} Read your responses- and let me know if something comes up for you- with what I wrote and if you have more questions or need more guidance… thanks- JM
Joan Marie Whelan} HI All- I am here commenting and it is not showing up – we are looking into it… otherwise I will post form here – the top….
Donna Lynn} Hey, I can read your comment…all
CarolAnn BaileyLloyd} Hey Donna Lynn– yes, I’m here with Joan Marie and she is experiencing one of FB’s infamous tech glitches in not being able to comment. So she has to answer questions from the top end of the thread. She is such a sweet and patient woman!
Donna Lynn} …and then press SHARE…lol
Donna Lynn} I think it is best to post form the top!
Donna Lynn} Joan Marie, why do I feel I am destined for greater things when life is such a struggle to make ends meet?
Joan Marie Whelan} Hi All: I am here- and will begin reading and answering questions!!! I see some are here all ready and yes- send more we are starting…. JM
Kristen Cort} Hello Joan Marie!
Donna Lynn} Sasha, are you here? Joan Marie, are you waiting for more peeps?
Joan Marie Whelan} We’ll be live-thread chatting @ 6pm PST / 9 pm EST. Post your questions as Kristen Cort has below and I will be answering you all as time permits! Looking forward t it tonight! Blessings, JM
CarolAnn BaileyLloyd} I think Joan Marie is going to be on here shortly!
Donna Lynn} oh good!
CarolAnn BaileyLloyd} I’m fairly excited about this event tonight — looking forward to seeing what type of advice Joan Marie can offer us
Cristina Barcia} I remember parts of your lectures in the past with regards to forgiveness and releasing the resentment of those who wrong you. I want to forgive peple who are close to me and are still very present in my life. My struggle is that the wrongs they have done to me, those few wrongs that affect my ability to trust, are patterns of their behavior that they chose NOT to change. Now, an easy answer to this question would be to just separate myself from these peple. But I honestly can’t. Because I don’t want to. Is that really the only option in a scenario like this? Am I making sense with this question here? Thank you
Joan Marie Whelan} Becoming a Positive Flame
“How far that little candle throws his beams! So shines a good deed in a weary world.” ~ William Shakespeare I believe that we can all shed a little light in the darkness of your recent times.
Joan Marie Whelan} Don’t forget! Tomorrow night is the night! 9pm EST/ 6pm PT RIGHT HERE! If you would like to post some questions on this group today, I’ll be reviewing them tomorrow and answering as many as I can! Blessings – JM
Sasha Sabbeth} OK. I am clear now. Really looking forward to this!
Sasha Sabbeth} In fact, xoxoxo
Sasha Sabbeth} Would someone please tell me the logistics of how this works. The Live Chat begins at 6:00 PM PST. Do we just come to this page and follow the posts? Thank you.
Joan Marie Whelan} See my note about tonight’s event!
Donna Lynn} Hi Joan Marie! I don’t know why my life has always been a struggle to make ends meet…I always felt I was destined for greater things…
Kristen Cort} I am so excited about this! Thank you for sharing your gift s generously. Here are some questions I have : )
1. How can I hone in on what is causing energy blockages within me, or what is in the way of me achieving my goals.
2. When I become clear on what is hindering me, what are some exercises, or tools I can use to overcome the blocks.
3. What are some tools or exercises I can use to increase my confidence and let go of the past.
Thank you Joan Marie!!
Cristina Barcia} You and I just met here. . .but I am with you on these questions. . I hope she answers. . Take care
Joan Marie Whelan} The date has been set friends — I am looking forward to sharing a LIVE thread with you on this group! Have your questions ready! Event details are set below! Blessings — JMW
Joan Marie Whelan} LIVE Facebook Chat Event | Intuition Girl
Wednesday, February 2nd, Certified Master Intuitive Joan Marie Whelan will be hosting a LIVE Facebook Chat on my group “Focus on You” 9pm EST/6pm PST
Sasha Sabbeth} Looking forward to it is an understatement!
Joan Marie Whelan} Welcome to the Focus on YOU group, where I’ll be announcing dates and times for future chats with me. I look forward to speaking with you soon! – Blessings, JMW
Theresa Buck Baldwin} Joan Marie I am so excited about this…thank you, thank you, thank you!!!!
Theresa Buck Baldwin} Joan Marie what an amazing gift! Thanks so much for giving of your time and talent.
Sasha Sabbeth} I am completely with you, Theresa! Thank you Joan Marie.
Sasha Sabbeth} Joan Marie! Thank you for putting this together!
LIVE Facebook Chat Event!
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FACEBOOK LIVE CHAT on Focus on You
Helping you understand how to focus better on you and to understand how to read a sign
Groundhog Day is infamous for the rascally critter’s prediction as to whether or not we are going to have six more weeks of winter. If he sees his shadow and runs inside, get ready for more cold…but if he does not, then warmer weather is on the way! Do you believe in signs? If you do, then you are not alone. In fact thousands of people every day see, hear, read or dream something that they believe to be a sign in their lives. Sometimes people receive these signals as signs of prosperity while others fear them to be ominous ones. Have you ever gotten a message or some inkling that something is awry or maybe you get a powerful gut feeling about something or someone? Do you follow signs to help you get somewhere and is it actually leading you in the wrong direction?
Wednesday, February 2nd, I will be hosting a LIVE Facebook Chat on my group “Focus on You”
9pm EST/6pm PST
Are you going to be there? I will be taking questions about the signals you have encountered in your life and how to use those signs to your best advantage. The “Focus on You” group is open to all Facebook members. I hope you will join me there! Click here to visit and join the group FOCUS on YOU
Or just click on the Focus on You Logo below:
Don’t miss Joan Marie in Newport Beach for a Live Medium Event
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Special Medium Evening in Newport Beach
JOAN MARIE WHELAN – MEDIUM AND INTUITIVE MASTER
will be hosting a Special Medium Evening
Joan Marie has the ability to read energy; therefore, she can go into your energy field and help you remove the blocks that might be stopping your success. She can see into your body and examine any disharmony or financial problem. She also communicates with the other realm – and can help you connect with your family and friends on the other side.
She will answer questions from the audience
DATE: December 14, 2010 — Tuesday Evening
TIME: 7-9:30 PM
PLACE: Jasmine Creek Community Complex, off Marguerite Avenue in Corona Del Mar, 92625- (After you enter the gate, the building is directly in front of you–Parking on street)
FEE: $60.00 in advance $70.00 at door — Space is limited due to room size
To reserve your seat: Call (949) 760-0044
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Having a Responsible Voice
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What are you broadcasting? How is your voice being heard? What does your voice really want to say? While all of us may not be fully aware of it, we have the power inside us to share meaningful dialog and information; and we also have the power to be destructive in the same manner.
In a world that is filled with modern conveyances and one that is rapidly changing at the speed of light, we all too often forget the basis of communication; and that is sharing worthwhile information, thoughts and ideas stemming from the greatest value of all= love. For just one moment, I want you to think about that word: LOVE. 
Say it aloud to yourself. Do you hear and feel how easy it is to say when it rolls off your tongue? In fact, when you say it, it tends to calm the heart and mind.
–>What we say and how we respond in conversation and within our relationships can be either helpful or undermine our own growth — both personally and professionally.
How do you speak with others? How do you relate with others? When you are communicating with others, do you take their feelings and their circumstances into consideration? Do you assume that an individual knows what you are thinking? These are all questions you should ask yourself in your mind’s eye before entering into dialog. Many of us do this day in and day out (online and offline) in our social networks, in public, at the office and at home. We forget that the things that we say and do have consequences: one’s actions cause an equal reaction. If you berate or belittle someone with your words or deeds, otherwise meaningful communication is quickly depleted and nothing positive can come of that.
When we employ our conversation and our energies in a positive way by listening as well as conveying the messages we want people to hear and understand, we open the doorway to creativity and deeper levels of communication. In doing so, we begin to exchange positive energies that help us to grow as well as promoting growth in others. What are you doing today to responsibly expand the conversation in your world as well as enriching the lives of others? What seeds of inspiration can you sew today?
Let me know your thoughts…I would love to hear from you today!
I am always,
Your Intuition Girl, Joan Marie Whelan
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Having a Responsible Voice
By Joan Marie Whelan
About the Author: Joan Marie is the extraordinary lifestyle expert for everyday living. She travels throughout the United States sharing her gifts and her intuitive gifts with solo-preneurs, professionals, small business owners, and large companies. She is the author of: “Self- Discovery: The Nine Principles to Reveal Your Sacred Gifts” which is available through Amazon or our web site. For more information about Joan Marie and her upcoming, exclusive events, please go to: http://www.joanmariewhelan.com and click on Lifestyle Makeover Programs.
What are you really messaging?
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Stephen Covey, renowned author of the book, The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, is quoted as saying, “Seek first to understand, then to be understood.” Truer words were never spoken. In fact, it is this type of thinking that a lot of folks are not doing enough nowadays.
Take social media for example. While we may have seen a dramatic upswing in online discussions, we are also beginning to see deterioration in human dialog and empathy. One minute we are reading how a girl just ate a peanut butter sandwich and the next how she was sleeping with a guy for kicks and giggles. How’s that for meaningful conversation?
Now, it is perfectly fine if you choose to broadcast your life online, but remember there are always consequences to your actions and yes, even your words. How you present yourselves to the external world does have its ramifications. No, you do not have to actively choose to live for anyone else, nor must you appease the crowds around you — but it is the company that you attract that may not be in your best interest; nor in the best interest of those that you may be inadvertently or even directly harming with your “messaging” skills; rather, lack thereof.
Covey stated something even more important: “While we are free to choose our actions, we are not free to choose the consequences of our actions.” You see, even in brief conversation, “messaging” or “texting” — you may be dropping tidbits of personal (sometimes too personal) information about your lives, lifestyles and the lives of others. In doing so, you condemn both yourselves and sometimes others to a smudged reputation. It is not okay to haphazardly toss personal information about your intimate life because when you do, you are ultimately becoming the cog of the rumor mill. Your ill thought actions can negatively and harmfully impact and damage another human being or group of people. The worst part is that when you do so, you often do not realize the repercussions until the havoc has ensued.
Are you willing to be responsible for your words and your actions? What are you doing today to be the best that you can be? If you participate in malice and personal intrusion, you are becoming the problem yourself.
Think before you speak or act. It may mean the difference between a random act of kindness and a random act of cruelty.
Remember this too: anyone that you persecute today may one day have the last laugh on you.
Until we speak again, I am
Joan Marie, your intuition girl
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What are you really messaging?
By Joan Marie Whelan
About the Author: Joan Marie is the extraordinary lifestyle expert for everyday living. She travels throughout the United States sharing her gifts and her intuitive gifts with solo-preneurs, professionals, small business owners, and large companies. She is the author of: “Self- Discovery: The Nine Principles to Reveal Your Sacred Gifts” which is available through Amazon or our web site. For more information about Joan Marie and her upcoming, exclusive events, please go to: http://www.joanmariewhelan.com and click on Lifestyle Makeover Programs.
